You Don't Have to Chase What's Meant for You. Tired of settling for half-love and empty effort? Confident & Unbothered by Pauli Castalano is your guide to owning your worth, setting unapologetic boundaries, and attracting better without begging. This book isn't about playing games—it's about shifting your mindset, building real confidence, and finally becoming the one who chooses instead of chases. If you're ready to stop shrinking and start standing in your power, this is your reminder: You are the prize. Act like it.