?? What Can You Expect From This Book? First of all: this is not a manual of sexual positions. You won't find here a chapter titled "The Kamasutra for Couples with Insomnia" or illustrations with twisted people like pretzels. This book doesn't come to tell you how many times a week you should have sex or to promise you that you're going to regain lost passion in three magical steps. This book comes to speak to you with the truth. The kind that makes you uncomfortable. The kind that is not shared on social networks or mentioned at the family table. ?? What is it about then? This book is about all those real questions we ask ourselves in hushed tones (or not at all) when sex becomes weird, tense, boring, non-existent or simply... uncomfortable. We will talk about desire that goes away, routine that bores, fantasies that are not said, porn, masturbation, toys, emotional infidelities, "I don't feel like it but I do it anyway", "Could it be that only I feel that way?" and many other things that you probably haven't been told honestly. ?? What are you going to take? Answers without make-up or moralism. Here we are not going to tell you what "should" happen, but what really happens. An emotional and sexual map of the couple, with clear signs so as not to get lost in guilt, silences and assumptions. Practical tools. Because knowing is good, but knowing what to do with it is better. Each chapter has reflections, concrete ideas, questions for you and your partner, and exercises (don't worry, no mandatory tantric yoga). Humor and relief. Because sex is also laughter, clumsiness, failed attempts, and the desire to send everything to hell sometimes. And that's okay. ?? What are you NOT going to find here? Magic formulas. Generalizations such as "men always..." or "women never...". Magazine advice like "turn it up with sexy lingerie" (although if you like it, go all out). Fault. We don't come to point fingers at you, but to give you a flashlight to explore what is yours. ?? Who should read this book? People in a relationship who want to understand why sex sometimes feels like an obligation. People who love their partner, but no longer want them (or vice versa). People who are confused, frustrated, curious or simply wanting to do things better. Couples of many years. Recent partners. Open couples. Closed couples. People who are not in a relationship but want to know what to avoid in the next one. And, of course, anyone who has ever said, "Is it me or is this sex with a partner more complicated than it seems?"