Strong women are perceived as cold and mean, simply because they refuse to be disrespected, mistreated or taken for granted. What is the definition of a strong woman? Is she one who submits? A people-pleaser? The one who will die to herself, but show up for everyone one else? Who made these rules? If you as a woman do not conform to these rules, you will be called names and labelled a toxic feminist. "A SPINSTER, she calls me."